| Understand your guy | | | | Take time to listen |
| This is the most important step towards getting your | | | | If you haven't been listening to him in the past, there is |
| man to open up. He hesitates to talk about his feelings | | | | no way he is going to open up to you now. He will feel |
| and emotions because he's probably afraid of looking | | | | that it is no use sharing his deepest desires, fears or |
| "weak". Men are supposed to be strong and have a | | | | emotions with you if he has been receiving no |
| "stiff upper lip" and confiding their innermost feelings | | | | encouragement from you in the past. Show him that |
| and end thoughts could make them feel insecure. | | | | you really care about his side of the story and he will |
| Make him feel safe with you | | | | readily open up to you. |
| As much as women love to feel secure, so do men. | | | | Don't criticize or judge |
| Make him feel loved and totally secure in your | | | | In the same way, if you have been too critical of him in |
| presence. Don't push him to reveal his thoughts. Instead | | | | the past, he is obviously going to hesitate to talk to you |
| praise and compliment him. Be gentle and encourage | | | | and disclose his feelings. The best way to get him to |
| him to relax with you. Once there is no pressure from | | | | trust you is never to criticize and judge him. |
| your side, he will slowly but surely open up. | | | | Remember you are not perfect so don't expect him to |
| Timing has to be right | | | | be. |
| There is a time for everything. Just as there is a right | | | | Don't bring up the past |
| time to zip your lips and shut up, there is a time to | | | | Women who harp on their past experiences, |
| open up and talk. The trick is to know WHEN. If you | | | | boyfriends, relationships etc will definitely frighten her |
| know your man inside out, then you should know just | | | | man and literally stop him from opening up in case he |
| when he seems to be more vulnerable and open to | | | | too would be one day discussed or considered a |
| your gentle prodding. Wait for the right moment and | | | | "terrible ex"!! Leave the past alone and respect your |
| get him to confide in you. | | | | guy. He will open up to you willingly. |
| Togetherness is sublime | | | | Pay Close Attention Here- |
| Opening up and confiding in one another will only come | | | | Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next |
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