Failure Is A Part Of Sportsmanship

A sportsman is a person who is taught to be fair till the            Game should be tackled as game.
end of the game. At school level, students areWhatever our players do on the playground it reflects
introduced with sports just to make familiar withour national character. A defeat or success does not
changing situations of success and failure. The mainshow our national character. However, any thing
objective is to behave normally in both theseunlawful can damage our identity.
extremes and to be fair during suspense like situationHave we ever seen an army general crying after
in game.defeat in war? No, because he is well aware of the
            Now what Afridi has done is notfact that defeat is also a reality. However, we have
true sportsmanship. It was a blunder but underassumed that all the successes of the world are
pressure. Was it a pressure of defeat? No. it was amade for us. Success comes after hard work. If any
pressure of facing the Pakistani nation. A nation that isteam has defeated our one, it means their struggle
never taught how to face failure. Moreover, it is awas far better than ours.
reality that we cannot face failure but still as a nation,For last 63 years what we are teaching our
we are not successful. We always opted forgenerations is not wisdom but rather it is totally
escapism. Escape from reality, escape from truth,emotions. We have deceived our young people
escape from our past, escape from hard work,emotionally. That is why whenever they see any
 escape from knowledge, escape from popular will,failure they get emotional. Because they are taught
escape from rule of majority, escape from modernism.that we are the best, we have won all wars, India
            If the players would be confidentattacked like cowards in the darkness of night. Actually
in the playground, they could achieve success. But weall modern warfare is fought at night. How it is possible
Pakistanis are so narrow minded that our players havethat India brought its army to borders in just one single
adopted such illegal methods to win for us.  Have wenight and our intelligence agencies were totally
ever said shame shame to our kids when they failunaware. Have we ever thought about it?
their exams? We want to give them more courage atIf we will teach these fairy tales to our people, they will
that time so that they may not loose heart and cansurely behave the same. We must come out of the
work in future. On the other side if our players did notworld of fantasies and we must have courage to
show good performance, they are treated like traitors.face the challenges. Challenges cannot be talked by
But surprisingly we only demand performance fromemotions only. Rather we should be emotionally hard
our players. We have never thought about soldier’sworking and intelligent to deal with the national and
performance, our education sector performance, howinternational challenges we are facing today.
many scientists we have produced sinceOur abnormal behavior regarding sports is easy to be
independence, how many inventions our scientistsfelt and criticize but the way we are dealing with other
have done in the field of civil technology, have wecrises is also not based on reality and consciousness.
ever thrown rotten eggs on politicians? When we castWhy we Pakistanis are checked from head to toe in
vote what we have in our minds? Just few personalforeign countries? Why our democratic system is
demands and that’s all. Have we ever thought thatalways derailed? Why we always welcome dictators?
what is a politician performance at district level?If democracy is not working that is our fault. A dictator,
            Have we ever protested whena judge, a pressure group cannot make the
these players are selected? Do we know theirdemocracy work for us. Supporting a usurper cannot
characters? Do we know rules of sportsmanship?make our system strong. Democracy will function well
We are hypocrites. On one side on personal levelif the conditions necessary for it are provided.
when we fail, we call it our destiny. While on the otherAdopting unlawful methods in game, politics, economics
side, we criticize our players for poor performance.and diplomacy will only defame us as a nation.