| For the ladies
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| | this relationship that make me incredibly
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| I work on the premise that your man is
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| | happy?
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| willing to give you everything you want;
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| | For the guys:
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| that he wants to make you happy, if only
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| | (Note: I won't normally write directly
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| he is shown how. If this is a stretch for
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| | for the guys, but in case your wondering
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| you, I suggest your belief is the main
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| | about my philosophy here.....)
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| thing standing between you and a
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| | I work on the premise that if you are not
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| wonderful relationship.
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| | happy in your relationship, it is because
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| When a man does not meet your
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| | your girlfriend or wife is not happy, and
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| expectation, you may tend to contract or
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| | therefore does not want you to be happy.
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| withdraw. Resentment can creep in and
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| | You know how when she's lit up you have a
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| your man pays in the end - either subtly
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| | great day, but when she's not you pay?
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| or directly. A cycle can form where you
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| | Sadly, the impact of her mood on your
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| may "cut him down" more often than you
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| | life is widely underestimated.
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| "build him up".
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| | I don't work with men on how to get their
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| My coaching and articles will centre
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| | partner to alter her behaviour or give
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| around helping you to:
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| | the guy more of what he wants. I work
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| 1) See you actually can have everything
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| | with men on how to pay attention, so they
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| you want from your relationship
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| | can give their women what she wants even
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| 2) Get clear on exactly what you want
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| | before she asks for it.
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| 3) Show your man how to give you what you
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| | "Make her happy, and your life will
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| want, in such a way that you both win!
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| | flow."
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| These steps often require a shift in
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| | Most women give out of obligation and
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| thinking, and giving up some behavioural
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| | conditioning. What would it be like to
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| habits. You will need to take
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| | have her so happy, she's giving out of
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| responsibility for your relationship -
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| | surplus?
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| often an uncomfortable place to stand.
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| | Further, because women highly value
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| The result is a positive cycle where he
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| | attention and consideration, and men tend
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| enjoys giving you what you want - wins
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| | to highly value producing or achieving, a
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| from it - rather than acting out of
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| | great win-win game is produced if the man
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| obligation or fear. This leaves you
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| | pays attention to what his partner wants,
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| radiantly happy, which in turn makes an
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| | and provides it! One could even go so far
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| ENORMOUS difference to his life.
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| | as to say that given what women go
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| Ask yourself - if life was a fairytale,
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| | through on this planet compared to the
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| and I really could have a perfect
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| | life of the average man, that it's only
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| relationship, what would that look like?
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| | fair! But fair is not relevant; suffice
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| What THREE things could I have more of in
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| | it to say this model works - wonderfully.
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